We all get into sticky situations , be it personal or professional and sometimes things don't end well and we miss the sense of closure from life.Well, why do you think people run away from life, its due to sense of missing something.We run after something which we can never get and we never value what we have? This inevitably creates a sense of emptiness which leads to people taking extreme steps.Humans are emotional beings and we always need that sense of well being for emotional stability.Disturb that and person evolves into totally somebody else. They turn from nice people to a dracula overnight.They hurl bad language, use sentimental dialogues and voila life turns into a bollywood movie.
Closure is important as it removes the underlying pain.Also it brings in a well meaning end to things which cause pain.Otherwise the wondering of what if remains throughout life.We always imagine and create scenarios which probably don't even mean anything,but become our everyday demons.The main problem nowadays is that people think that discussing issues makes them weak, not it doesn't , it rather makes a person strong enough to endure how it is meant to be.The what if's, if buts of life are just dragging fun, reality from life.
I think the main ingredient for closure is a sane discussion with no drama.Bring out things as they are .Wouldn't you want a thorn removed in one shot rather than try to heal it with magic and things that don't work.And mainly people need to understand that accepting mistake is not a sign of weakness, rather a sign of developing strength.But, its rare to see people who really feel that.I have seen cases where people fight for petty issues and they become family feuds and they turn into ugly battles.Is it insane to think we have one life , we rather live it up than live it down for revenge and petty meaningless emotions which are to be relegated to has beens.
The peace which people feel i have heard after closure is like rebirth of faith and all things good, so i think a sane no holds barred discussion is better than years of feud and pointless back and forth imaginary hurt egos.It brings in an emotional healing and peace to life.I just thought of this word due to some reason and just expanded on it.But, i think it makes sense in a vague sorta way.
Closure is important as it removes the underlying pain.Also it brings in a well meaning end to things which cause pain.Otherwise the wondering of what if remains throughout life.We always imagine and create scenarios which probably don't even mean anything,but become our everyday demons.The main problem nowadays is that people think that discussing issues makes them weak, not it doesn't , it rather makes a person strong enough to endure how it is meant to be.The what if's, if buts of life are just dragging fun, reality from life.
I think the main ingredient for closure is a sane discussion with no drama.Bring out things as they are .Wouldn't you want a thorn removed in one shot rather than try to heal it with magic and things that don't work.And mainly people need to understand that accepting mistake is not a sign of weakness, rather a sign of developing strength.But, its rare to see people who really feel that.I have seen cases where people fight for petty issues and they become family feuds and they turn into ugly battles.Is it insane to think we have one life , we rather live it up than live it down for revenge and petty meaningless emotions which are to be relegated to has beens.
The peace which people feel i have heard after closure is like rebirth of faith and all things good, so i think a sane no holds barred discussion is better than years of feud and pointless back and forth imaginary hurt egos.It brings in an emotional healing and peace to life.I just thought of this word due to some reason and just expanded on it.But, i think it makes sense in a vague sorta way.
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