Tuesday, August 27, 2013

Hardwork vs smartwork?


     "Hardwork" used to be the mantra to success in olden days.No longer it holds true.Nowadays instant success is more to do with smart work rather than hard work. There is a fine line between working hard and working smart. Its all about turning a problem into opportunity, you can crib as you like about bad situation. Or you can show them what you are made of. I have been in hardworker category till last year ,but a soft skills calls made me realize i need to get smart.
   Share credit if needed, people who never worked with you or didnot help you don't deserve credit. But ensure credit is given to a person who helped you.Else you will end up alone with your success.Its relationships which matter more than success .
   
   

Is lying OK?

 
      Nowadays , people lie so much.Sometimes its even without their knowing that they are giving false information.I once saw some colleague taking leave during critical project time stating being sick.But unfortunately his sense did not made him realize that his facebook status was contradictory(it was long ago,but still pisses me off). Suffice to say i have lost faith in such people now.I myself take leave if needed, by stating real reason.I have not faked sick leaves so far thankfully.So ,this incident reminded me of a incident in school.
       In class 8, we had a mandatory craft class.I wasn't interested in making woolen squares, i was playing catch catch with a friend from my desk to hers.Unfortunately the PT teacher entered the class and saw me.She asked me "were you playing the class" .Stupid me said "No" in a low tone.When i knew she has seen me playing why did i lie? As i said involuntary i suppose to escape from a bad situation and get away from consequences of my action.PT teacher got real angry now, she was angry i lied , i thought she was angry about playing in the class.She made me write 100 times "I will not lie again". This made me mad, but the next day when i went to submit it.She told me my lying was what got me into trouble, and that you should only lie if it saves someone's life.I would say that was defining moment for me,maybe made a better person.I want to say thanks to that teacher this close to teachers' day.
    I  recently found that some person has been copy pasting my blog posts and publishing on his blog, word to word.I found it by accident.But ,made me feel irritated initially, then amused that i was  good enough to be copied.I hope he is reading now and has the decency to remove my posts.
This is another form of lying.If we consciously decide to stop lying, its possible. No need to sugarcoat things if bluntness shows the person right path.

Dedicated to a teacher who showed me not to lie .I am not a Raja Harishchandra ,:P.But  atleast  I try!!So be a better human! 

Monday, August 05, 2013

Broken dreams

You mightnot hear the sound of shatter
but tis true that dreams do shatter
Its something that mightnot matter
But what's a life without any tatter.

Life is as beautiful as we make
Be happy for your own sake
Never show any fear even when in a wake
For life can never be as beautiful as a cake

If you hear a clatter of shattering dreams
Someone without any ambition or dream
wake them  up from that bad dream
Tis is not a life to live devoid of dreams.