How to get over annoyance?

 We are human and we get annoyed everyday with lot of things .And we get over it.Sometimes some people and situation can be annoying, we can distance ourselves from these and get over it.Though there are times when there is no getting away for us humans.So , how is it we can live and be happy in such situations? I was reading an article about this which made me think and formulate below.

- Deactivate facebook during Feb, when you see so much public declarations going on.Its like sane people start thinking insane stuff .(the article was about this :D)
- Read a wonderful book, when you are so annoyed to even talk to anyone!
- Call an old friend and go over old times!
- Plan to travel a place and explore options to spend time away from home
- Just sip some tea and let your imagination run riot, don't get into good bad protocol. Full on imagine a change
- Cook something elaborate and enjoy it !
- Listen to some music and dance in the rain, be a child for sometime
- There will always be unreasonable haters who will dislike you for no reason.Don't waste time on them, be among those who like you.The world has enough people.
- Be special to yourself, don't wait around for someone.Gift yourself something nice every few months.I gifted myself on my Birthday and will do on important occasions.We are special so treat yourself.
- Be forgiving in life,  hatred is pure waste of time and energy.Disassociate with such people, forget them.
- Be happy,live in today and don't keep thinking about future.

Sometimes all this helps, though we are human so there will be times when annoyance overtakes.Just live through those :)

Nainital

  This year Republic day was on Tuesday , so we have 4 day weekend if anyone took leave on 25th Jan. No plans as usual, but i wanted to see Nainital as i heard its a very relaxing place.So, we checked online and found return train tickets, but no train tickets from Delhi.So, bus looked easy and safe option.Taxi will be boring with only 2 people ,plus very expensive and not so safe.So, we booked a bus in the morning and off we went in the night.I had booked a hotel called traveller's paradise, i got a good deal on goibibo .So, the bus journey was like 9-10 hours and dropped us at Mall road, Nainital.
   From there hotel was not far.Though i realized that i had seen the photo of Naukuchiatal property photos and booked the other hotel.Though all was well as it was very close to Naini lake and mall road.So day one was just ropeway and exploring above .Day 2 was either self explore or nearby places by taxi.I felt all lakes looked same, so went to cave gardens by walk(1.6 KM ) and explored it and just relaxed.Day 3 was return by train and just visited Bhimtal on the way , which was a disappointment and not worth seeing as there was just another lake.Then it was Shatabdi to Delhi, best way to travel back.

Am i real?

Sometimes in a real world, you meet an unreal person,
Carrying everyone else's and his own burden,
The way he lives is not for himself but for everyone
Though he ends up losing in the long run.

Will he get what he wants from his life,
or will he have to wait for good things in afterlife?
Is he going to lead a life full of strife ?
Or he is going to have a time of his life?

We will never know his future or fate,
Whether he will survive at this rate?
Is his destiny filled with a forever wait?
Or is he going to end up filled with hate?

He is not really unreal but too real,
Had he had less joy in life of zeal,
Though his heart slowly turns to mild steel,
Then it will take forever to remove real peel.