Friday, April 01, 2016

Giving Up

      Edison would not have discovered bulb if he had given up.Giving up is too easy in life.But, everyday you are questioning on many situations, if they are worth pursuing or is it time to give up.Be it relationships, friendships, job, city, person, situation.We are always evaluating if we are finally giving up or still try to make it work.These evaluations take their toll and one fine day it happens we wrap up and just give up !
  So,should we keep trying to make everything work or sometimes just get over it and let it go? There is no right or wrong answer to it.Sometimes something illogical bothers us and we can't let go and sometimes we let go of something really important.In future we also keep wonder if we did right.These are sort of moral dilemma's today's generation is bogged with.Not that our parents were less confused, but they were a different era and had lot more patience in solving their problems.
   I have come across a family where the valuation of money is more than human relations.They are idiotic enough to believe that facebook friendships matter and facebook updates are all about them.It was mind boggling to see a lady hoarding away money, stuff,things and spreading malicious details about her own family for money.Worst thing was she has involved her own son in her doings.He is knowingly or god knows unknowingly believing so much false stuff.Its amazing that money matter so much to such people.They hid their family skeletons and portrayed like hum saath saath hain type of family, but in reality it was golmaal types.Its like once the pandora's box is opened all the skeletons come out in open.I hope they realize the main earning in life the good name and good deeds and not money or things.If they don't they will someday have nothing but regret left with them.Its sad to see such human's wasting their life on useless stuff.I wish them well, but i have a conviction that we all get what we sow.I tried reasoning with them that they can keep all the stuff in life, but maybe value human relationships too.But it was like no go, so i have given up that they will change.I gave respect and everything i was supposed to despite their indifference.They created knowingly scenarios where they created differences, if you hide coming and going away of somebody's father's travel then how will that person  feel.I recall a incident where this lady made the lota which is filled with rice when a bride enters and supposed to make it fall forward , made it fall backward .Gravity guys ,but no she held the bride's leg and voila made it such that it fell backwards.She is backward enough to think such things matter, anyways.Now i have given up and think they will one day get it from god.As hurting people's emotions is the worst thing to do.God also gives up on such people.