Boomarang?

Seems like life is like a boomarang.We keep getting stuck in same situation again and again.We try to avoid them and learn from them.But it would seem like they keep repeating,as we really dont have a clue to control them.These situations test our patience.So,what is the respite to
get over these situations?I remember a story where a boy kept slipping on the floor of his class everyday at the same spot.Someone then told him to study the floor and find why he keep slipping there everyday.He then found that the floor was slippery.Yeah a mudane story,i agree!But we need to study the patterns in life and find what exactly it is about us that triggers boomarang situations.Sometimes its to do with our habit of following patterns of others ,but they mightnot suit us as they suit others.So,next time you find yourself in the same rut,give yourself time to study why,before you start complaining.